My Approach

I believe conversations about death should happen long before a crisis occurs.

 

Planning ahead creates space for peace, clarity, and meaningful connection. When we take the time to discuss our wishes, values, and fears before they become urgent, we give ourselves and our loved ones the gift of greater understanding and fewer difficult decisions during times of stress.

 

My perspective on end-of-life planning is deeply personal. In 2009, my husband was diagnosed with ALS (Lou Gehrig's Disease). Rather than avoiding difficult conversations, we chose to face them together. We talked about what mattered most to him, where he wanted to be, who he wanted beside him, and what a meaningful end-of-life experience would look like. We discussed funeral arrangements, practical plans, and the legacy he hoped to leave behind.

 

Those conversations were not easy, but they were invaluable.

 

That experience taught me that planning for the end of life is not about preparing for death—it's about creating space to live fully, love deeply, and ensure that our wishes are known and respected.

 

As an End-of-Life Doula, my role is to provide a compassionate, non-judgmental environment where individuals and families can explore their wishes, ask difficult questions, and make informed decisions about the future. There is no right or wrong way to navigate this journey. Together, we'll create an approach that honors your values, beliefs, traditions, and goals.

 

As a Christian faith-based doula, I am happy to incorporate prayer, scripture, and spiritual discussion for those who desire it. At the same time, I respect all faith traditions, spiritual beliefs, and personal perspectives, and I will always follow your lead in determining what role spirituality should play in your experience.

 

My goal is simple: to help you and your loved ones approach life's final chapter with greater peace, clarity, dignity, and support.